Is the First Impression Reliable

Is the First Impression Reliable
Is the First Impression Reliable

Is the First Impression Reliable Oh My God, Jesus! I can’t believe I considered you are a person as quiet as water at that time. And you always hid so deep that didn’t disclose your bold and heroic heart until just now. It gives me a warning that the first impression is unreliable.

This plot is part of a movie I forget the name, and it changes my view about whether the first impression is reliable or not. And that period of time, I used to identify a person juest rely on the first sight of her or him, is naive and tender and even stupid.

There are links among things. People always approach you with some objectives in social situations. But, whatever those purpose are good or bad, these people are not their most original faces——their baby faces. For instance, Lily, a beautiful lady, praises a ugly man to be handsome and wise for getting her a discount at the shop, as the man is a salesperson. From this man’s perspective, maybe he thinks how nice person the lady is, but actually not.

Of course, sometimes, those precautions are not

focusing on you, just for protecting themselves, people who are seriously lacking sense of security. Like chameleons, their skin replicates the pattern of its surroundings. People in different situations with different marks to protect themselves from insecurity factors. So you always know someone in a trustless case, obviously, and then it’s impossible to explore what kind of their real inside is.

Moreover, take me for an example, I can not guarantee that whenever I stay with somebody, I am a certainly real one. I and my roommates had a heated discussion about how much the difference between my first image and my image in reality. And then the answer did not surprise us——there were some considerable differences. It reflects the

Unreliablilty of first impression, clearly.

An old Chinese saying——all that glitters is not gold, suggests that appearances can be deceptive, therefore, you must have a deep understanding of others, going through a long period of time to get along with and observing from all aspects of somebody’s life. Although it is difficult to achieve, human nature is so complicated, which

you can’t escape.

英1243 Stone

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