英语中爱情隐喻及其认知理据分析
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英语中爱情隐喻及其认知理据分析
作者：张书慧
作者单位：内蒙古师范大学外国语学院,内蒙古,呼和浩特,010021
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魅力中国
英文刊名：CHARMING CHINA
年，卷(期)：2010(30)
参考文献(6条)
1.王寅认知语言学 2007
https://www.360docs.net/doc/1517059732.html,ckoff Metaphores We Live By 1980
3.束定芳隐喻学研究 2003
4.胡壮麟认知隐喻学 2004
5.E.Ungerer;H.J.Schmid Introduction to Cognitive Linguistics 2001
6.苏立昌认知语言学与认知理论 2007
本文读者也读过(10条)
1.池莉谬论结构[期刊论文]-爱情·婚姻·家庭(文摘版)2004(7)
2.曾毅平语言时尚与语用建设[期刊论文]-青海民族学院学报(社会科学版)2002,29(1)
3.郑洁.宋加高.Zheng Jie.Song Jiagao"爱情"隐喻的认知共性、异性与文化差异[期刊论文]-安徽警官职业学院学报2008,7(1)
4.曹艳红.CAO Yan-hong从同舟共济到分道扬镳——20世纪20年代小说中爱情与自由之辩[期刊论文]-华南农业大学学报（社会科学版）2008,7(1)
5.贺又宁论语言的时尚化[期刊论文]-贵州师范大学学报(社会科学版)2002(4)
6.向友青.XIANG You-qing英汉"爱情"的认知原型研究[期刊论文]-哈尔滨学院学报2011,32(2)
7.饶宏泉"去××化"的语言包装[期刊论文]-修辞学习2008(1)
8.李端阳.李元.LI Duan-yang.LI Yuan从认知角度看英汉"爱情"隐喻的异同[期刊论文]-桂林航天工业高等专科学校学报2007,12(3)
9.王丽君.张悦从认知角度看英汉爱情隐喻的对比分析[期刊论文]-时代教育（教育教学版）2010(1)
10.杨建萍生命诚可贵爱情价更高——中学语文课本"爱情"美文品读[期刊论文]-新西部（下半月）2008(11)
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英汉语爱情隐喻认知对比分析
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英语中爱情隐喻及其认知理据分析
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Contents Abstract (2) Ⅰ. Introduction (3) Ⅱ. Literature Review (3) A. The cognitive study of metaphor (3) B. Conception of structural metaphor (4) Ⅲ. Homogeneity of Chinese and English structural metaphors of love (4) A. Love is a journey (4) B. Love is war (5) C. Love is a physical force (5) D. Love is fluid (5) E. Love is plant (5) Ⅳ. Heterogenity of Chinese and English structural metaphors of love (6) A. The difference caused by the diversity of ecomomic structure (6) B. The difference caused by the diversity of culture (6) C. Emotional expression in a different way (7) Ⅴ. Conclusion (7) Notes (8) Bibliography (9) Acknowledgements (10)
Abstract: Love, one of human's deepest and strongest passions, is expressed in hundreds of ways in human civilization.The abstract concept of love can not be fully elucidated without metaphors. Structural metaphor is a mapping from one conceptual structure to another. Chinese and English structural metaphors of love share a similar central conceptual system because of the cognitive similarity. However, the diversity of national cultures makes differences between them. This paper analyzes the homogeneity of Chinese and English structural metaphors of love; and meanwhile it expatiates the heterogeneity of them through comparing the cultural diversities. Key words: love; structural metaphor; cognition; culture 摘要: 在人类繁衍生息的漫长历史进程中，爱情是人类最厚重久远的感情之一。没有隐喻，爱情这一抽象概念就得不到充分阐释。结构隐喻是指以一种概念的结构来构造另一种概念。由于人类认知的相似性,中英文惯用的爱情结构隐喻有着惊人的相似之处; 而中英不同的民族文化又导致了中英爱情结构隐喻的差异性。本文分析了中英爱情结构隐喻表达的趋同性; 同时通过对中英文化背景异的比较, 阐述了中英爱情结构隐喻表达的异质性。 关键词: 爱情; 结构隐喻; 认知; 文化
关于爱的英语作文
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